Friday, June 25, 2010

The sin of being too nice

Good News Reflection
Friday of the Ninth Week of Ordinary Time
June 4, 2010
Today's Readings:
2 Tim 3:10-17
Ps 119:157,160-161,165-166,168
Mark 12:35-37
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The sin of being too nice
Today's first reading warns that all who live religiously in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. Is anyone damaging your reputation, rejecting you, or abandoning you because you're standing up for biblical truth and Christian virtue? If you have not yet been persecuted, you've not followed Christ very far.
Following Jesus religiously means going all the way to the cross. Along the way we meet disbelieving Pharisees and others who don't want to hear the truth.
It IS possible to have an easy life as a Christian. We can successfully work hard at being so nice that we're liked by everyone all the time. We can avoid controversial issues. We can love others by only affirming them, never challenging them to new growth or a better understanding of healthy, holy living. We can go so far as to pray that God will lead the sinners we know to repentance, hoping that he'll do all the work. But none of this is true Christian living.
Scripture calls this type of Christian a "charlatan". It's a fake Christianity. It's certainly not a description of Jesus! Such people are deceived – they deceive themselves into thinking that they are okay, because Jesus loves them and will take them to heaven when their time of being nice on earth is finished, and for them, that's all that matters.
The problem with this is that it's very selfish. It shows a lack of concern for the condition of the souls of others. It's self-protective, guarding the comfort of an easy life, keeping it non-confrontational, avoiding persecution, sustaining the illusion that there is no real need to do otherwise – very likely at the cost of justice, love, and even the salvation of others.
If being Christian means being only nice, why do we need the Bible? St. Paul says, "All scripture is inspired by God for teaching, refutation and correction, and for training in righteousness." Oh-oh! It's not nice to refute lies and misconceptions. Nor is it easy to successfully give correction.
Sometimes, we are called to quietly smile and show love by our niceness; when we're with someone who is not ready to hear the truth, we can do more harm than good by forcing it upon them. At other times, we are called to show our love by speaking up about the truth, even if it stirs up trouble.
How do we know when to be quiet and when to speak up? Only by listening to the Holy Spirit and paying attention to the nudges and inspirations that come from the Lord.
What's the value of being a Christian if we don't care enough about others to tell them the difficult truths that will bring them closer to Christ? What's the value of following Christ if we don't stand up for the truth and go all the way to the cross with him for the sake of their eternal happiness?
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