Following Christ Without Comparison

"Following Christ Without Comparison"

Reflection on John 21:20-25

In the final verses of the Gospel of John, we witness a subtle but profound moment between Jesus and Peter. After being reaffirmed in his mission to shepherd the flock, Peter turns and sees the beloved disciple following them. His question—“Lord, what about him?”—reveals something very human: the tendency to compare ourselves with others, even in matters of faith.

Jesus responds not with a detailed answer, but with a gentle correction: “What if I want him to remain until I come? What concern is it of yours? You follow me.” In this moment, Christ lovingly redirects Peter’s attention. The call to discipleship is personal. It is not about what others are doing, what roles they’ve been given, or how their paths unfold. Each of us is called to follow Christ uniquely and faithfully, trusting in His plan.

This passage is a reminder that the spiritual life is not a competition. Comparison can quickly become a distraction or even a burden. But Jesus invites us to focus on our own journey with Him—to walk in trust, obedience, and love, regardless of what others are doing or experiencing.

The beloved disciple’s fate was not for Peter to worry about. Similarly, others’ gifts, vocations, or spiritual progress should not shake our peace. God’s plans are perfectly tailored to each soul. Our task is to follow, with eyes fixed on Jesus.

Key Takeaway:
Jesus calls each of us individually—our focus should not be on others’ paths, but on faithfully following Him where He leads us.