Is it time to quit?

Good News Reflection
Thursday of the Fourteenth Week of Ordinary Time
July 8, 2010
Today's Readings:
Hos 11:1-4, 8c-9
Ps 80:2ac, 3b, 15-16
Matt 10:7-15
http://www.usccb.org/nab/070810.shtml
USCCB Podcast of the Readings:
http://ccc.usccb.org/cccradio/NABPodcasts/10_07_08.mp3
Is it time to quit?
Who have you been reaching out to, trying to show by your life and your words that "the reign of God is at hand", like Jesus commands us to do in today's Gospel reading? Are they resisting this message? Have you ever failed at helping someone find God's healing love ("cure the sick") or new life in him ("raise the dead") or escape from evil ("expel demons")?

You are not the failure.
When others continually refuse to respond to the Good News that we share, we need to remember that God has been and will continue to persist in giving them countless opportunities to come out of the tombs of their denial systems. He will keep trying until their final breaths. However, he will not keep trying THROUGH YOU. He does not want to wear you out.
At some point, he will ask you to step aside so that he can bring in someone new to speak for him. He will say, "Enough, dear one! Move on to someone who WILL listen to you. I'll continue my efforts through someone else; it's time for you to quit. Trust me." That's when it's time to shake the dust from your feet.
The dust on our feet is the grimy ick we pick up from the sinfulness of others – it's the dirt they're living in. It's also our own sinful reactions to their behavior when they reject our help. We have to shake it off. We have to walk to the next "town" clean. It's important to make time to be alone with Jesus so that he can wash the dust that remains on our feet after the shaking.
A note to those who cannot walk away: In an unhappy marriage, God does not want you to walk away literally (there are other solutions) unless you or the children are being abused or abandoned, and even then, getting away to safety does not necessarily mean divorce. In an unpleasant job, God won't ask you to quit before leading you to a new work that will meet at least the minimum requirements of your financial responsibilities. In a parish that has divisive problems, God is unlikely to tell you to switch to another parish, because he prefers that you stay to pray and help make changes from within.
Shaking off the dust sometimes means nothing more than moving away from the idea that WE are the ones who must save others from their sins.
It can be difficult to let go and let God turn the work over to someone else. It can be just as difficult to stay and keep trying until God says it's time to quit. To do this right, we must stay closely connected to God, so that we hear him when he says: "Well done, my good and faithful servant. You did your best and I am very pleased with you. Now let's go somewhere else."
If you're in a difficult relationship, use my e-book "The Path to Healing in Difficult Relationships" published at Catholic Digital Resources. See http://catholicdr.com/ebooks/relationships.htm.
© 2010 by Terry A. Modica
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